Because it feels more like that

Dating for the first time in your 20s

You will meet someone at a bar or a club. Meeting someone at a bar almost never works out. No matter how old you are, settling sucks. First of all, no one needs to know your business. Sometimes your girlfriends will feel like a better relationship than anything romantic.

Only some dudes get more mature as they get older. Going to events without a date is tough. We knew everything about each other. As your friends enter very serious relationships, they will start to slowly fade out of your life. We told each other everything.

You will meet someone

But there genuinely are people out there who are scared of commitment, and getting through to them can be very hard. But it truly is so important. People will ask you about marriage too often. When I was in college, I relied on my friends for advice every moment of the day.

This is almost never true. And sometimes it really is just an excuse. The fear of commitment is real.

Meeting someone at a bar