And really be ready to walk away

Dating for 2 years no commitment

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Two years in my eyes is a pretty long time and to not to want to be in a relationship is definetely an excuse. Until the last no marriage, and approach to have been together. My husband was the only man I also have loved and known for so long.

The point I want to make is there is a man out there who wants to be with you and love you the way you deserve to be loved. But after this long I have to stop thinking about his feelings and think about mine. However, being much more aware.

The fact that she stayed and nothing materialized, which is exactly what he warned her about, it not his fault. If they introduce you to family, friends, etc, take it exactly for what it is. You were too trusting and too naive.

He gave her an out from the start. Copyright - All Rights Reserved. If not, then stay and run the risk of him meeting someone else as his options are wide open and cutting ties with you. The ball is in your court to make the choice of remaining as is and see what eventually results or explain to him how you feel.

He is comfortable with you at this point and how things are. So I agree with Belle, he did string her along. They really have no place to go if I want to spend more time with someone. He is ready not just with a relationship with you. We are all adults and women need to learn to take responsibility for their actions.

All the unfortunate common issues that women here posts never happened with me with my late husband and my boyfriend of now. So I will def learn from this. This was my first time dating and I thought I was being patient and loving, but it looks like I was just being used. And then listens closely to what he says. If you want a real future with a real man and a real relationship, you need to walk away.

He gave her an out from

Sometimes the truth hurts, and coming from people who see outside of knowing us and just seeing the situation, it says a lot. Anyway, so there goes the issue of abandonment, anger, insecurity, you name it, I probably had it.

The only time you could have safely walked was right in the beginning when he was not sure. It appears that everything you all have done together in his mind does not amount up to shit in terms of what you want.

If you can be easygoing enough and strong to do it, that is wonderful. You would have a better chance at getting what you want if you walk away. He layed out the terms and she made the choice to stay.