Drugs depends on which drugs

Dating a guy who drinks and smokes

Relationship was never the same, I was terrified. Have him look you up in a year.

Getting sober is a journey, not a destination. It's probably not a good time to date him. Almost veg diet, drinks alcohol Infrequently and never smokes.

Getting sober is a journey notIt's probably not a good

Other than that, I don't have much interface with addicts, I guess. If you choose to continue, just be aware and be careful. Additional giveaways are planned. It's not very supportive to be drinking around him, making him go to bars or having alcohol in the house.

That he was in recovery became his whole focus in life. He can even quit smoking and drinking and become a pastor if you are very supportive, both of you will work on your lapses. But it doesn't mean he's any worse than anybody else or unfit for a relationship. Shunning someone for their past could lead you to miss out on something really good.